I helped my friend Nikki big chop and it was epic. The key to the whole process was the mood. She invited me over one Saturday, with the simple text “I am ready.”
I sped over to her apartment in fear that she would back out once again. I am natural myself which is why she depended on my support. Once I arrived, she washed her hair and let it dry some. The mood was totally off. This was becoming more awkward then it was supposed to be. Big chopping is supposed to be fun! Where’s the tunes?
So we turned on the likes of Erykah Badu, India Arie and D’Angelo, all Neo-soul artists whose music made us proud to be natural-conscious sistas.
I allowed Nikki to take the first snip, snip, snip…this girl was getting too scissor happy and missing the mark of demarcation. I abruptly grabbed the scissors from her so I could finish the back. Once it was done she looked in the mirror with such confidence on her face. I will never forget that moment of freedom she had. Her hair was gone; she felt great and looked amazing.
Her first words were “I haven’t seen my natural hair in over 15 years” then she began taking selfies-Nikki was totally feeling herself and I couldn’t blame her. Becoming a natural is one of the most liberating feelings ever. She actually motivated me to trim my hair once I got home. We went out to a local bar to celebrate after.
It was an epic day.