The Schomburg hosted a Women in Media chat a few nights ago and I decided to attend. I believe this is an extremely important conversation, especially for someone like me who wants to break into the field. The panelist consisted of one of my favorites, Demetria Lucas of Belle in Brooklyn blog and book; she’s also on Bravo’s Blood Sweat and Heels; Vanessa K. DeLuca Editor-in-chief of Essence Magazine, Farai Chideya journalist and host of One with Farai and moderating, journalist Akisa Omulepu. So many interesting topics were brought up and I would love to share some of their discussion points as well as my takeaways.
Misogyny: Do men hate women? After watching shows like Love and Hip Hop you begin to ponder this. Sometimes it makes my heart jump when I hear a man use the B-word to address a woman, attack a woman, or even as a term of endearment. These shows allow women to be disrespected like such all the time. Being called a B**** is degrading. Historically, especially in the hip hop culture, women are not viewed as queens, we are viewed as a man’s B****, their subordinate, or sexual object. Women like Joseline Hernandez, allows her partner, Stevie J to degrade her because of her past as a stripper or Mimi who allowed her boyfriend to exploit her by releasing their sex tape when she has a little daughter at home, are just some of the examples of misogyny illustrated on main stream television, and its detrimental to our image as a whole.
Modern Mom: Sitcoms are a prime example where you see black women in modern mom roles. Most famous Claire Huxtable, yet most recently Rainbow Johnson played by Tracee Eliis Ross on the ABC hit show Blackish. She’s an eccentric and corky doctor, and I can almost see her being that type of mom in real life. But is that the only story we have to tell? Is the modern African American mom, a pretty and a professional doctor or lawyer, with 4-5 children? Continue reading “Talks at the Schomburg: Portrayals of Black Women in Media”